I’m currently helping my mother pack up her home. She has saved almost everything over the years. Most of which doesn’t make sense.
My mother even saved the patches I received as a child in whatever sports/activity I was in. The last great achievement in physical activity I did was receiving “Gold” in the Canada Fitness Award Program back in grade 7. Pretty sure that program ended a year or two later. The poor Canadian children nowadays don’t understand the agony of having to do this.
Those were a couple of the oddities I found. But the thing that surprised me more was that my mother wouldn’t throw out old electronics. Many of which she never uses any more. She has a cheap portable CD player that she won’t get rid off because she may go for a walk on the beach one day and would like to listen to music. I discovered a cheap navigation system that she never figured out how to use, so it’s practically brand new even though it’s about ten years old now. She has numerous printers for her computer, “because it’s easier to buy a new printer than figure out what is wrong with the other one”. I also discovered a bin of cables, cords, and wires that she is keeping because she’s not sure what they all belong to. Most of these things she is afraid to give up.
But my daughter scored pretty well this trip. Gramma saved an old clarinet in really good shape from when my sister took band class for about three years. My daughter is also walking away with a never been used 2010 Canon VIXIA HD camcorder. I have no idea why my mother owned it, however my daughter is super excited about being its new owner.
Sure, there are some memories packed away now in these boxes. And the sensation of feeling or seeing these items makes you ponder life. I was a bit upset that my mother saved the strangest things from my childhood instead of the things that mattered most to me. Perhaps one day my kids will be thinking the same thing about me. What I save won’t make sense to anyone but me.
I guess that’s what hoarding is. Keeping what you want- because one day it will mean something. At least now I know numerous different ways to tie a silk scarf.
Scooby Doo reference required.