Yesterday evening, my 14 year old nephew and my 11 year old son wanted to go out before dinner. They asked everyone in the house to give them a ride. Each person kept sending them away and told them to ask someone else. Including myself. Finally I asked where it was they wanted to go.
My nephew talked about a place just up the road called Eagle River. He mentioned pools of water and cliff diving. I decided that it sounded kind of neat, and I really didn’t know what kind of cliffs a young boy would imagine. Next thing I knew, I was driving four children for a quick dip before dinner. I’m glad my wife came along as well to help look after the kids.
My nephew directed me towards the location that we could take the vehicle to. The river run directly under Highway 101 on the outskirts of Powell River. As you walk down, you can see the water running off and forming a large pool. The cutouts in the rocks almost made it look like old Aztec ruins. Then you round the corner and the views continue to be amazing.
There was only a few guys on the far end. I went over and took a look. One guy was doing backflips off the waterfall into a pool of water below. I was most impressed. These were definitely cliffs and it was definitely not something I was about to attempt or let the children who were with me attempt. That was a young man’s adventure. I’ve been cliff diving before, but didn’t want to encourage the small ones to try it.
So we stayed in the first pool of water. By one edge it was fairly deep, so the two oldest did their version of cliff jumping about ten feet up from the water. Even though it wasn’t nearly as high up, the kids still had a bit of fear in them as they teetered before the first jump.
If we return next summer, this is going to be a place we hit for longer than an hour. It was secluded and essentially empty. The water was clear with a jade hue, but clean nonetheless. Sometimes taking the time to listen to a kid can lead us on a great adventure. Eagle River was exactly that.
Powell River is a silent little city that my sister and her family lives near. There are two ferry terminals that you can use to get to off this rock towards more civilization. The summer months are absolutely beautiful here.
My sister is right on the water with a view of the ocean and Texada island. Her home could be a Bed & Breakfast if she wanted.
I spent the morning enjoying a coffee as the boats sailed by. It was a great way to start my day. But my allergies were not being my friend.
For lunch, we drove out to Beach Hut Fish & Chips. It was recommended by a friend of mine. Boy, was it delicious. Some of the best deep fried goodies I have had in ages.
After lunch, we drove to the end of Highway 101 to a bakery that my sister recommended. $48 in cinnamon buns for tomorrow’s breakfast were picked up. Our car smelled heavenly for the 45 minute drive back to my sister’s home.
This afternoon is pretty much the same as the morning. Only it’ll be a cold beverage and a deck chair as I enjoy the views. My kids are down exploring the rocks and the ocean while I write this.
This quick getaway visiting my family is exactly what I needed to start my vacation time. Now to get back to lounging and doing nothing.
With less than a month remaining with summer, it feels like we haven't done much. But I'd be wrong. It also feels like we are cramming the last of summer vacation into two weeks, but again, I'd be wrong… Kind of.
The past week or so has been dry, warm and smoke filled. We have reached the end of the Dog Days of Summer. It has made for a more lackadaisical few days. Not much has been going on in my household which is nice in a sense. We are working on plans to finish up the summer as well as a bit of back to school preparation.
Our middle child is changing bedrooms. Which is a good reason to de-clutter and purge unwanted items. This has us busy off and on during whatever moments we have available.
My family is getting a bit stir crazy and I feel we need to get away. So that's the plan. Get out of the house and chill out someplace else before the hectic school activities begin.
We are planning a visit to my mother's home and then my sister's home. We also have some camping plans and a couple of days at Great Wolf Lodge thrown in for some waterpark fun.
Summer is far from over. Let's do this!
Today's post is short. I've been rather busy picking up some of the chores my wife usually does. I don't usually do laundry, but today was an exception.
We both have certain things that we do to keep the household running smooth. We have a good understanding of the shared responsibilities. Tonight I also prepared a dinner for some friends coming over. We went to meet our friends up the road at the Krause Berry Farm for a glass of wine before coming to our home for some brisket and mashed potatoes.
The kids helped to take down and fold most of the laundry. They also helped make dinner and set the table for our guests. It is nice that our kids are helpful without any fights.
We ate dinner outside with our friends and… I forgot to take my underwear off the laundry line. So now our friends know my brand of underwear…
Funny how life hits you in the strangest of ways. So far this summer I have cancelled plans at the last minute for no better reason than, "Just Because". It kind of bothers me. A couple days ago it was going for a hike to Inch Creek. Last night was the Drive-In movie. A few weeks ago it was cancelling going to the swimming hole up the road.
So today I chose to make a splash… I mean- make it up to the family. We went to the swimming hole for an hour or so to cool down. We got back home and I was about to sit down and write about it, when I remembered that I had done that before. Cooling Off was written one year ago.
So it's odd that life is on repeat. Because two years prior we did the same thing. Every year we went once. As much as it was a nice treat, chances are we won't be going there again this summer.
Now it's time for another evening on the lake as the kids do dryland training for speed skating.
So far the summer is on repeat: Work, nap, lake, beers… not that I'm complaining. I need to get the kids to the Drive-In movies this summer before it's too late. I also need to get some camping and get a few hikes in.
Life could be a lot tougher. But life is pretty freaking swell, even if it is on repeat.
My son is eleven. Jokes about penises and farts are rampant. Of course, me being immature, can’t help but laugh.
No idea what this means to my son, but he thinks it’s the funniest thing ever.
I know that I should probably be telling him not to say those things or act that way. But that’s not really what the world is about. The real world is full of NSFW memes and quick witted jokes. So instead, I’m trying to teach him when it’s appropriate to say or act a certain way in polite society. This is proving to be more of a challenge.
He is also trying to work in sarcasm on a regular basis. It’s too bad that 80% of the time he just sounds like he’s being an asshole. Usually it’s directed towards his sisters, but once in a while he tries it out on my wife and I. It’s hard to not want to punish him… he hears my wife and I joke with each other frequently. He just needs to finesse his delivery and timing. There’s so much left to teach him still.
Hopefully by the time he makes it to high school, I’ll have helped him develop his personality. And hopefully that personality is respectful with just a hint of douchieness- like his old man.
Here we are about a third of the way through summer. So far, so good. We’ve enjoyed most of our freedom, with only a couple little bumps along the way. Bumps being: not having a perfect and fun experience all the time (Yesterday’s Grumpy Bums is a good example). For the most part it’s been a great beginning.
And today is the day of all days for our summer. Or most peoples that we associate with’s summer. SDCC Exclusive Movie Trailer Day! *MUPPET FLAIL*
I’m Ready to enter the Oasis.
First one was a trailer for a film that I am super excited to see. I read the book ages ago, and it still hits me in the nostalgia feels as I reminisce about it. Ready Player One has tons of Easter eggs fitting into the 80s motif.
This Halloween: Season 2 of Stranger Things
My family is super excited about Stranger Things Season 2. Again, this one has mid 1980’s written all over it. I’ve put $50 in quarters into Dragon’s Lair over my days…
Finally for my excitement was the newest Thor: Ragnarok trailer. The MCU always pleases our family. This one looks no less fun.
There are plenty of more trailers that have also come out, but these three top my list. San Diego Comicon is the only Con that I have on my bucket list that I need to attend. One day I’ll be in Hall H. One day….
Our two youngest children are attending some free summer school programs this month. Essentially it’s a summer camp Monday-Friday as they learn about science and tech. It’s as if the school board took all the fun stuff from elementary school and put it together for three weeks of fun. Our children are really enjoying it. That’s about the nicest thing that I can say about today.
This morning, I told my wife at the last minute that we were going to take our oldest daughter and the dog when we went to pick up the two youngest. I said that I wanted to go for a picnic and we could pick up some KFC and find a park or some place. That’s when the grumpiness kicked in.
Our oldest daughter didn’t want to go. She had slept in until 11am and barely wanted to get dressed. My wife didn’t want to go without a better plan in motion. She was also upset that we were behind schedule in leaving to get the children. It’s not that we would be late to pick them up, just late to find good parking. It didn’t help that on our way we got stopped by a train for an extra few minutes…
After we picked up the kids, we went to pick up KFC. I thought it would be a nice treat: some greasy overpriced chicken. It’s something we rarely eat, to a point that our 11 year old son says he’s never had it. We took our bucket of 12 pieces and a box of fries and hit the freeway. Seriously. There is no nice way of advertising a “Bucket of Chicken”.
We got off the freeway a few minutes later to go to a small place called Barnston Island. As we headed towards the tiny ferry, we got stopped by another train. Sometimes my work follows me everywhere. The touching, pushing and nagging was in full force in the back seat. We made it to the ferry (aka tugboat and small barge) and crossed over to the little island in the middle of the Fraser River. I drove us around to the other side, pulled over and we all got out and headed towards the edge where the water was.
No one wanted to carry anything. Not the food, not the drinks, the blanket, not even the leash for the dog. So my wife barked some orders out, and the grumpy noises occurred and they all took something. We headed towards the rocks and found a little spot to eat lunch.
Even though the weather was a bit grey, we sat and ate. The meal was peaceful. No fighting. Except when my wife tried to use her new selfie stick to get a family shot. No one was cooperating. Even the dog was unimpressed. Shortly after eating, a few raindrops happened, so we packed up and got back into the Pathfinder. It was a brief lunch. The bickering and touching occurred in the back seat once more where it had left off.
What I was hoping to be a nice surprise picnic lunch was less than stellar. Last minute planning isn’t our thing as a family it seems. I better plan the next “spontaneous event” at least two months in advance.
My children love getting my attention. On the weeks that I work four night shifts, they don’t really see me until my first day off. So on that day, they all clamor for my attention. As much as I want some time to myself to unwind a bit, I know that I should spend the time with them. So I did.
This afternoon, my son approached me and wanted to assemble a wooden toy he had bought at the Calgary Expo back in April. I really wanted to say no, but knew that it would be better to work with him on it at a time that worked for him. He was attentive and very focused as he put it together. I held the pieces and cleared the excess glue as we went. He was very happy with the final result and is wanting to put it on display in his room.
As my son and I were working together, my daughter sat to watch and asked if we could build one of her models next. As reluctant as I wanted to be, I still said yes. So we built a cute little anime style panda together. All I had to do was take the pieces off the plastic tray and she assembled the entire thing. When we finished, she ran off and took a bunch of photos of her Panda and her other matching bear in pretend battles.
Both projects took less than 15 minutes each. My children were so happy to have me there to help, even though we all knew that they really didn’t need me for the projects. It was a nice way to say “I love you” and spend time together. Putting my children first when it comes to these moments are important to me and to them.
As tired as I might be, or as annoyed as I might feel, putting those feelings aside for thirty minutes made all the difference in the world this afternoon. Everyone was happy at dinner, we all sang and joked as well. Pretty sure it was all because of the little things in life that we do for each other.
Now I am off to have quality time with my wife as we drive out to visit some friends. My days off aren’t really days off. 😊
Today is our daughter’s 15th birthday. My wife and I offered for her to do whatever she wanted. She could have a party, go out with friends, go shopping, pretty much whatever a 15 year old girl would want to do.
Here is what she chose:
- Bake and ice her own cake.
- Watch Netflix.
- Play badminton.
- Go for sushi.
It’s really convenient that she is a low maintenance child. She enjoys a calm & relaxed lifestyle. She’s content to read a book or paint a picture. She’s not as outgoing as I am, so I need to remember and respect that. Today is her birthday. She could’ve done whatever she wanted. She chose to be around the house and spend time with us as a family. Her wish to do nothing out of the ordinary was granted.
As you wish.
Happy Birthday Random.